What is coaching?
How is coaching different from Therapy?
How is Coaching Different from Consulting?
Distinctions among coaching, therapy, and consulting.
What is the basic philosophy
of coaching?
Who hires a
coach and why?
What happens when you hire
a coach?
Does the coach work on personal
goals or business/professional goals?
Where does the
coach focus with an average client?
Why does coaching
work?
Why does phone coaching work so well?
Why is coaching
becoming so popular?
What about people who are already doing great in their
lives. Why would they need a coach?
Can a dependency
be created between coach and client?
Can coaching hurt
someone?
Can I hire a coach just for a short-term, special
project?
What qualifies a Coach?

What is coaching?
Coaches:
• Help people set better goals and then reach those goals.
• Ask their clients to do more than they would have done
on their own.
• Focus their clients better to more quickly produce results.
• Provide the tools, support and structure to accomplish
more.
How is coaching different from Therapy?
In an article by C.J. Hayden & Laura Whitworth (Co-Founder
of the Coaches Training Institute), the differences are explained
clearly:
Therapy and Professional Coaching have several aspects in common.
To an outside observer, they may look similar. Both professions
are based on an ongoing, confidential, one-to-one relationship between
the therapist or Coach and their client. Clients come to therapy
or Coaching wanting change, and both professions assume that significant
change will only occur over time. Within the therapy or coaching
relationship, regular sessions are scheduled, during which conversations
occur. Other similarities of practice exist.
However, therapy and Coaching are radically different in the context
of the relationship, condition of the client, and content of the
sessions.
| Coaching: |
Therapy: |
- Models or Paradigms - |
|
Sports training and coaching
Business skills training and performance
development coaching
Personal growth seminars
Self-mastery disciplines and practices |
Medicine and healing |
- Works with people who are |
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Eager to move to a higher level of functioning
Seeking focus, strategy, and motivation
Asking how to questions
Designing their future, learning new skills, and
Seeking more balance in their lives |
Seeking self-understanding
Asking why questions
Dealing with old issues, emotional pain or traumas
Psychologically challenged
in a quantifiable way |
How is Coaching Different from Consulting?
Consulting and Coaching differ greatly. Consulting requires
that the consultant have expertise in the area that the client seeks
advice, where as Coaching is not advising the client at all, but
rather holds the client as Creative, Resourceful and Whole. In a
consulting relationship the consultant holds the power in the relationship,
in coaching the PARTNERSHIP holds the power.
Distinctions among coaching, therapy,
and consulting.
Comparison |
Coaching |
Therapy |
Consulting |
Client status |
Client is creative, resourceful, and whole. |
Client is broken, needs healing |
Client needs advice or help. |
Who is the expert? |
Client is the expert |
Therapist is the expert. |
Consultant is the expert
|
Questions? |
Asks what questions |
Asks why questions |
Answers questions |
Time focus |
Focus on present/future |
Focus on past/present |
Focus on /present/future |
Agenda |
Clients |
Therapists |
Consultants |
Problem solving |
Client solves problem |
Problem is analyzed/may or may not be solved, Why is it happening
is analyzed. |
Consultant solves the problem. |
What is the basic philosophy of coaching?
Simply put, that we humans are great, that we're all discovering
what we really want and that we get can get what we want faster
and easier by having a coach who's been there and who can help us.
Who hires a coach and why?
People hire a coach because
· They want more.
· They want to grow.
· They want it easier.
It's as simple as that. Coaches help a client get all three. Quickly.
What happens when you hire a coach?
Many things, but the most important are:
• You take yourself more seriously.
• You take more effective and focused actions immediately.
• You stop putting up with what is dragging you down.
• You create momentum so it's easier to get results.
• You set better goals that you might not have without the
coach.
Does the coach work on personal goals
or business/professional goals?
Both, actually. And, with the line between personal and business
life blurring nowadays, the coach is the only professional trained
to work with all aspects of you.
Where does the coach
focus with an average client?
We focus where the client needs us most. And, we tend to weave
in the following discussions:
• Getting the client's Personal Foundation strengthened.
• Helping the client beef up their Reserve.
• Helping the client set goals based on their Personal Values.
By including these with what the client wants from us, we help the
client have fewer problems and focus on what's going to make them
the most successful. We've found that clients really enjoy this
approach.
Why does coaching work?
Coaching works for several reasons:
• Synergy between the coach and client creates momentum.
• Better goals are set -- ones that naturally pull the client
toward the goal rather than goals that require the client to push
themselves to the goal.
• The client develops new skills, and these skills translate
into more success.
Why does phone coaching work so well?
Coaching on the telephone is the industry standard, with well over 90% of all coaching sessions occurring via phone. Clients experience many benefits including:
• Convenience: coaching via phone allows for no travel time to get to appointments, ensuring that the sessions start on time. Busy clients will only need to block out for their actual session time vs. travel time etc.
• Focus: when coaching on the phone, clients notice an increased focus, as if the distance between the coach and client allow the client to take more responsibility for their experience and for the session.
• Flexibility: coaching over the phone means a client can access their coach from anywhere: their home, office, the beach-you name it!
Why is coaching becoming so popular?
Coaching is becoming popular for several reasons:
1. Many people are tired of doing what they "should" do
and are ready to do something special and meaningful for the rest
of their lives. Problem is, many can't see it, or if they can, they
can't see a way to reorient their life around it. A coach can help
them do both.
2. People are realizing how simple it can be to accomplish something
that several years ago might have felt out of reach or like a pipedream.
A coach is not a miracle worker (well, they are, sometimes) but
a coach does have a large tool kit to help the Big Idea become a
Reality. Fortunately, people now have time and resources to invest
in themselves in this kind of growth.
3. Spirituality. If you've tracked the phenomenal success of James
Redfield's Celestine Prophecy on the NY Times best-seller list during
1994, you get a sense of just how many people are willing to look
at, and consider, the notion of spirituality. Wow. Many coaches
are spiritually based -- even the ones who coach IBM and AT&T.
America is getting more spiritual - connected with self and others
- quickly.
What about people who are already doing
great in their lives. Why would they need a coach?
They might not need a coach. But it is helpful to find out:
Are they doing what they most enjoy? Are they tolerating anything?
Is life easy? Are they going to be financially independent within
the next 15 years? Do they have what they most want? We've discovered
that, often, people need to expect more out of their lives. A coach
can help in this process.
Can a dependency
be created between coach and client?
Not really. The client may "need" the coach in order
to maximize an opportunity or accelerate their growth, yet not be
"dependent" on the coach. Anyone who's up to something
"needs" structure, advice, support and a place to brag,
so in that sense, the coach is necessary. But an emotional, psychological
dependency is not created. The coach works with people who are just
fine and strong enough on their own. Remember, we're not resolving
issues here. The coach is helping the client to create a better
future: More success, more money, and a higher quality of life.
Can coaching hurt someone?
No. How? We aren't doing psychological work. We're not trying
to control the client's thinking. We're not cattle prods; we're
partners.
Can I hire a coach just for a short-term,
special project?
Yes. Some clients hire a coach to help them accomplish specific
goals or projects. Usually, however, the client keeps working with
the coach after that because there are even more interesting things
to accomplish.
What qualifies a Coach?
A coach is a trained professional who is certified by a coaching
institution that is approved by the International Coach Federation
(ICF) which governs the standards, practices, ethics and guidelines
of the coaching profession. All Electric Kites coaches are certified
through The Coaches Training Institue, an ICF accreditated institution.
*Excerpted, in part, from The International Coaching Federation
and The Coaches Training Institute.
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